They say that time heals everything but what if the current moment is so messed up that you got million options but none of them feels right? And that one thing that feels so right scares you to death..now thats a dilemma of centuries.
It shouldn't be one, right? Didn't our moms always tell us "follow your heart" and then our dads told us "but take your brain with you". But when they are contradicting, which one has more weight on? Does logical thinking win or a heart filled with love?
So let me go a bit back. I loved my long hair, it was so pretty and also damn sexy because I had an option of getting cute princess curly hair or a gorgeous straight hair. One day, I got bored and I cut it. From long dark hair into a short business woman and blond! When I looked into the mirror, I couldn't recognize myself anymore. The picture had changed. But wasn't this exactly what I wanted? I mean no one forced me to change myself, I did it because I wanted so. "It was time", that's what I told myself.
Now you might wonder why am I talking about choices, options and suddenly hair. This hair was a great example for how much we are afraid of changes, even if the change is good or bad. We are afraid because we are too comfortable on our cozy sofas. No, we should grow as humans. We should learn that changes, even when they are made by ourselves, are part of growing up.
I might have million stories to tell, million examples to share but none are like those you experience yourself. I cannot none can feel how you felt when going through a change. Go through everything with your head up because nothing in this world happens without a reason. Even one step, one word or one thought has a purpose so keep them and don't fight against everything. Just go with the flow with a strong mind towards the future.
I have thousand words for you, but the the book is filled with empty pages. Why? So I can write on them, draw on them and then color them as I want. Simple hu? Well, that is how simple you can make your life! Life was not supposed to be hard, so lets stop making it so damn hard.
You want that job, go get it! You want him, tell him! You want to loose weight, decide it! You want a better life, make it!
Back to chilling ;)
It shouldn't be one, right? Didn't our moms always tell us "follow your heart" and then our dads told us "but take your brain with you". But when they are contradicting, which one has more weight on? Does logical thinking win or a heart filled with love?
So let me go a bit back. I loved my long hair, it was so pretty and also damn sexy because I had an option of getting cute princess curly hair or a gorgeous straight hair. One day, I got bored and I cut it. From long dark hair into a short business woman and blond! When I looked into the mirror, I couldn't recognize myself anymore. The picture had changed. But wasn't this exactly what I wanted? I mean no one forced me to change myself, I did it because I wanted so. "It was time", that's what I told myself.
Now you might wonder why am I talking about choices, options and suddenly hair. This hair was a great example for how much we are afraid of changes, even if the change is good or bad. We are afraid because we are too comfortable on our cozy sofas. No, we should grow as humans. We should learn that changes, even when they are made by ourselves, are part of growing up.
I might have million stories to tell, million examples to share but none are like those you experience yourself. I cannot none can feel how you felt when going through a change. Go through everything with your head up because nothing in this world happens without a reason. Even one step, one word or one thought has a purpose so keep them and don't fight against everything. Just go with the flow with a strong mind towards the future.
I have thousand words for you, but the the book is filled with empty pages. Why? So I can write on them, draw on them and then color them as I want. Simple hu? Well, that is how simple you can make your life! Life was not supposed to be hard, so lets stop making it so damn hard.
You want that job, go get it! You want him, tell him! You want to loose weight, decide it! You want a better life, make it!
Back to chilling ;)
